April 16, 2010


Our days are filled with images like these pictures.  I find that these two can be getting along so well; then I turn my back for a second, and they're fighting.  It's usually over a toy.  Hattie likes to aggravate her baby sister.  Mary Ellen has learned to scratch and pull Hattie's hair.  They have to have everything equal.  If one gets a cracker or juice, you better believe the other one wants and must have the same thing. 

I know this is just the beginning of what will be a deep relationship.  I have two sisters, so I know the highs and lows that come with having such a relationship.  Now I get to see it from a mother's perspective, and I am enjoying watching them together so much; however, they can also frustrate me and leave me throwing my hands in the air, not knowing what the right solution is.  And they're only 1 and 3.  I tremble when I think how I'll manage when they're 15 and 17.

The other day I was at a playdate with the girls, and a more experienced mom was there with her 3 daughters.  Two of them started fighting over a toy.  She immediately took the toy away and said, "We will not love a THING more than we love each other.  When you figure out a loving solution, come and find me and the toy."  And that was the end of it.  These girls are older than mine, and this was the perfect solution, I thought, to this problem.  Not just taking the toy away; I usually do that, but what she said.  I thought that was right on.  Don't you love learning from more experienced, wiser mommies?  Most of my parenting tactics have come from them.

So hopefully by spending time with wise mommies and with lots of GRACE, I can help foster a loving, gentle, non-competitive relationship between my girls.  That's so important to me!

April 12, 2010

Why I've Not Felt Motivated to Blog Lately

Yep!  As most of you already know via facebook, I've been rather tired and drained because my body's been a little preoccupied growing and sustaining another little life.  It's hard work!

Not to mention these two keep me rather busy as well!

Sean and I are expecting to be outnumbered some time in November.  My official due date is November 13th.

This time around, I've decided to go with a midwife practice through Texas Children's Hospital.  So far I am really impressed by them.  I like my ob who delivered both of the girls, but I really want to attempt a natural childbirth this time, so I thought using a midwife might help foster that a little better than my ob could have.  And the good thing about the midwives is I'll deliver in a hospital, so if I change my mind in the midst of pain and want the epi, I can get it!  I like having options ;).

And like I said on facebook, Sean and I covet your prayers for the birth of a healthy baby and an uneventful pregnancy.

Wisdom From the Pope

“The inalienable dignity of every human being and the rights which flow from that dignity - in the first place the right to life and the defense of life - are at the heart of the church's message." Pope John Paul ended his address, saying: "In spite of divisions among Christians, 'all those justified by faith through baptism are incorporated into Christ...brothers and sisters in the Lord.'" Pope John Paul 2